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Pushing the subject too far risks making him feel defensive, and it might damage your relationship. But there are a few ways you could try to get them interested in the idea, so try these before you write off swinging. Just remember, this is not about tricking your partner because that rarely will have a happy swinging ending for you.

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But I can understand how she has come to these conclusions. Sarah Stroh in Sexography. To answer this question further, we need to discuss swinger sex and love. For most women, the separation of love and sex is not easy to achieve; after all, we women find it a lot harder to have sex without emotional attachment. A woman can be many things, and if she is comfortable enough within her sexuality to embrace those desires and act upon them, then that is something to be celebrated. I would have thought like men, women would love to have the opportunity to have many sexual partners.

I understand that we are heavily influenced by societal expectations when it comes to what is acceptable and what is not.

4 women get real about how swinging affected their relationships

Yesterday, I received an from a husband who had spoken to his wife about starting swinging, but her response had been not overly positive. Firstly, here is an excerpt from the. Open in app. Love is an emotional response, a deeper connection that is nurtured over time.

I can explain what swinging is and let them come up with their own conclusions. There are many different reasons that someone may wish to be involved in the swinger lifestyle; no two people get involved for the same reasons. The differences between men and women are hardwired into our mammal DNA. However, once you understand the differences and accept that it is simply the way our brains are wired up, it is much easier to separate the two, regardless of your gender.

There are quite honestly hundreds of ways to play, from being voyeurs in clubs to bdsm parties, to playing with single guys or girls or having a close network of married swinger friends. Read blog articles, watch youtube videos, educate yourselves.

The reluctant husband – what happens when she wants to swing but he doesn’t?

After all, seen as I am Thiskindagirl; swinging Lifestyle guru, sexpert and ethical non-monogamy goddess, surely, this would make me the biggest slut of all, right? How to Make Fake Cum. The love you feel for your husband or wife is entirely separate from the sexual emotions that you may experience when you swing. However, I feel that this subject in itself deserves a whole blog post! After all, they would never make a porn film about cuddling in bed and discussing your rules and limits!

How can i convince my wife to try swinging?

I love my wife, but how do I get her to open up about the idea without getting rejected? It should enhance it, but never be a replacement, physically or emotionally. Is it not an innate biological desire in both men and women? A guy who can express his emotions, in a calm, clear and concise manner, for me, gets my vote every time! Get started Open in app.

He asked me for advice on what to do next and why I think his wife responded this way? Trust deepens and the moment they start being open and honest with one another is when they can start to build a solid swinger foundation. More from thiskindagirl Follow. It is easy to see why the other partner in the relationship may believe that their curiosity in the lifestyle has been born out of a lack of interest in them or the relationship. Kind regards. The had now got me thinking. in Get started. The first step is to get a realistic understanding of what swinging is.

Swinging should only ever complement your existing relationship. It is a really curious concept that opening up your relationship can make you closer. I would appreciate your advice. We need to talk about how and why it is essential to separate love and sex. You are grabbing hold of it with both hands and shaping it to suit you. It is much easier for men to separate the two, which is one reason why very rarely men ask me this question. I am probably in the minority when I share what I believe to be characteristics of a man.

We are all the product of our surroundings, our upbringing, the society that we live in and the norms and values that this society upholds. Clarice Neely. In most cases, couples that swing discover that their relationships deepen over time, and the love they feel for one another becomes more cemented.

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Being a swinger or being involved in the lifestyle does not mean in any way that you are loved less or less desired by your partner. More From Medium. Opening up your marriage is something that takes a great deal of courage and is very much a gradual process.

Once you start exploring the possibilities, you will realise there are lots of ways to have fun. How I learnt to masturbate in a healthy way? Yes, you can watch porn, but very often, this is quite unrealistic. In that case, they may leave the other partner confused about their expectations. She loves sex and is open to us watching porn together, but I have got some resistance when opening up the idea of having an open relationship and swinging. Swingers Relationships Marriage Sex Women.

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in. Dear ThiskindagirlI am married to a quite conservative woman. After all, we often measure how attractive someone is on how jealous their partner becomes when the other person is desired. Maya Melamed in P. I Love You. The Hidden Obsession. Was there anything I could do to help her?

In my world, there is only expressing and exploring your sexuality. When we are faced with situations, ideas and scenarios that challenge our belief system and comfort levels, very often, our first response can be a negative one. But it is essential to realise that this response is entirely normal. As you can imagine, there are a lot of questions to be answered here, so if you are sitting comfortably, I shall begin!

Suppose the swinging discussion is too explicit and too one-sided? Sometimes, it is easy to fall into the mindset that if your partner wants to swing, then somehow, that desire has been born out of a lack of sexual desire for you or a lack of interest in your relationship. Being defensive is our way of protecting ourselves against things that we believe pose a threat to us and our relationships.

How are swinger women portrayed in traditional society? Do Women Like To Swing? What had influenced her to make these assumptions?

How can i convince my wife to try swinging?

Mindfully Masturbating. I do fully support and encourage honest conversation between couples, but when one person never even contemplated the idea of swinging, and the other one describes in detail as to what they would to happen… the expectations of the two individuals are so mismatched that very often one partner feels wholly overwhelmed and responds negatively. Get started. And how do women view men that swing? Before we have had the chance to understand or comprehend the situation fully, we have pre-judged and preformed our ideas without any sort of prior investigation.

Thiskindagirl is the clever couples guide to sexy, savvy, swinging! However, it is a question that women ask pretty frequently, and in fact, I asked it too when I first started swinging. Swinging is never a replacement for love. Being self-critical is one thing that we are all susceptible of doing from time to time!

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How had the wife come to her conclusions? So what can you do to stop this from happening? I believe love and sex must be separated when you swing. A few years ago, I would have found it difficult not to get upset by being branded a slut.

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